c'est la vie, c'est l'amour

one of those days

im seriously on the verge of having a breakdown.would really like to shout at someone or hit something…maybe i’m just getting tired of this emotional roller coaster hell ride…the only thing that’s keeping me sane is my husband and daughter.i need a major chill pill.i should learn how to shrug it off and let it be, it’s too stressful to be angry at someone or something that you have no control over.or maybe i should just accept the fact that some people are in your life to test your patience and bring you down.oh how i’d love a drama-free-day…trying my best not to cry or get mad. 

Mommy-baby

Mommy-baby

Peek-a-boo

Peek-a-boo

Yellow day

Yellow day

Gelato

Gelato

Angel sleeping.

Angel sleeping.

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<3

In a relationship, married or not… You should read this.

nathanpersuasion:

Marriage.

“When I got home that night as my wife served dinner, I held her hand and said, I’ve got something to tell you. She sat down and ate quietly. Again I observed the hurt in her eyes.

Suddenly I didn’t know how to open my mouth. But I had to let her know what I was thinking. I want a divorce. I raised the topic calmly. She didn’t seem to be annoyed by my words, instead she asked me softly, why?  

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50’s Guidelines on how to be a wife

From a 1950’s high school home economics textbook, teaching girls how to prepare for married life.

1950 housewife1. Have dinner ready: Plan ahead, even the night before, to have a delicious meal on time. 

This is a way of letting him know that you have been thinking about him, and are concerned about his needs. Most men are hungry when they come home and the prospects of a good meal are part of the warm welcome needed.

2. Prepare yourself: Take 15 minutes to rest so you will be refreshed when he arrives. Touch up your make-up, put a ribbon in your hair and be fresh looking. 
He has just been with a lot of work- weary people. Be a little gay and a little more interesting. His boring day may need a lift.

3. Clear away the clutter. Make one last trip through the main part of the house just before your husband arrives, gathering up school books, toys, paper, etc. Then run a dust cloth over the tables. 
Your husband will feel he has reached a haven of rest and order, and it will give you a lift, too.

4. Prepare the children: Take a few minutes to wash the children’s hands and faces if they are small, comb their hair, and if necessary, change their clothes.
They are little treasures and he would like to see them playing the part.

5. Minimize the noise: At the time of his arrival, eliminate all noise of washer, dryer, dishwasher or vacuum. Try to encourage the children to be quiet. 
Be happy to see him. Greet him with a warm smile and be glad to see him.

6. Things to avoid: Don’t greet him with problems or complaints. Don’t complain if he’s late for dinner. 
Count this as minor compared with what he might have gone through that day.

7. Make him comfortable: Have him lean back in a comfortable chair or suggest he lie down in the bedroom. Have a cool or warm drink ready for him. Arrange his pillow and offer to take off his shoes. 
Speak in a low, soft, soothing and pleasant voice. Allow him to relax and unwind.

8. Listen to him: You may have a dozen things to tell him, but the moment of his arrival is not the time. Let him talk first.

9. Make the evening his: Never complain if he does not take you out to dinner or to other places of entertainment; instead, try to understand his world of strain and pressure, his need to be home and relax.

10. The goal: Try to make your home a place of peace and order where your husband can relax.

it&#8217;s the good girls who have diaries, bad girls dont have the time&#8230;

it’s the good girls who have diaries, bad girls dont have the time…